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Day 4: Get in touch with an old friend you’ve not seen for a while

In the mid-1990s I worked in a college and made a number of good friends – four in particular stand out. However although I have seen each of them in-between, I then lived abroad for several years and somehow have not reconnected since my return.

I do think that people come into our lives at particular […]

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Day 3: Be gentle with someone who you feel inclined to criticise

This task could not have come at a better time as today I had to phone someone (let’s call him Josh) who I felt had not done what he committed to, with the effect of making things difficult for me and to a lesser extent others. I do have some sympathy for Josh as he […]

By |February 3rd, 2018|All posts, Friendly February, Friendship|0 Comments

Day 2: Ask a friend what good things have happened to them recently

This task is such a lovely one as it’s so positive. I have just spoken to a newish friend who described a number of ‘good things’ – they were a mix of personal achievements (deserving celebration), as well as appreciating being healthier than expected, and spending some time with a friend.

What was so lovely was […]

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Day 1: Send someone a message to say how much they mean to you

Today is the first day of the ‘Friendly February’ calendar developed by Action for Happiness. This encourages us to ‘… share Friendship and boost our relationships’. I am really looking forward to trying different actions as we go through the month. I look forward to connecting differently with some people, and perhaps connecting with folk I […]

By |February 1st, 2018|All posts, Friendly February, Friendship, Love|0 Comments

150 Acts of Kindness – Thank you one and all for your support

A big thank you to everyone who has sponsored me in my 150 Acts of Kindness (listed below) for Quaker Social Action, and helped me to meet my goal of £1500.Thank you too to those who have supported me in other ways – it’s been really important.

This been a wonderful experience and I have learned […]

By |December 8th, 2017|Acts of Kindness, All posts, Kindness|1 Comment

Acts of Kindness Nos. 141 – 150 (out of 150)

These acts of kindness take me to my goal of 150. I am so very grateful for the sponsorship, encouragement and support I’ve received. In a later post I will list all 150 and reflect on the experience. So, I’ve:

141. Shared my reflections about being an ‘everyday Quaker’

142. Gave a talk to a library group […]

By |December 6th, 2017|Acts of Kindness, All posts, Kindness|0 Comments

Acts of Kindness Nos. 101 – 140 (out of 150)

World Kindness Day (13 November) was ‘… a day to celebrate and promote kindness in all its forms’. I will nearly have reached my goal of 150 acts of kindness in order to raise £1500 for Quaker Social Action, and once again the recipients of these acts have varied: other people, the environment, myself … […]

By |December 2nd, 2017|Acts of Kindness, All posts, Kindness|0 Comments

Acts of Kindness Nos. 86 – 100 (out of 150)

Although I am raising funds for Quaker Social Action, readers of this blog will know that I have found that by acting kindly I have often experienced happiness myself. I also hope that kindness will have an impact on others. Action for Happiness is a movement that aims to ‘help people take action for a happier and […]

By |October 8th, 2017|Acts of Kindness, All posts, Kindness|0 Comments

Acts of Kindness Nos. 81 – 85 (out of 150)

Over the past few weeks I have witnessed many acts of kindness, and I have carried out a number myself. However I am aware that although I am a vegetarian I do not often go out of my way to show kindness to animals, birds, ants, reptiles … I have tried encouraging birds to our […]

By |September 24th, 2017|Acts of Kindness, All posts, Kindness|0 Comments

Acts of Kindness Nos. 66 – 80 (out of 150)

Although I am enjoying carrying out acts of kindness it is a challenge finding ones that are ‘different’, and so I am seeking inspiration from a number of sources. These include hearing of kind acts undertaken by others, and being on the receiving end of kindness myself. So here are 15 more, and if you […]

By |September 13th, 2017|Acts of Kindness, All posts, Kindness|0 Comments